Saturday, April 09, 2005

what is this .. ? btw WHY ?

what is this ? i mean jealous .. why people jealous about something ? why people jealous about others belonging ? why must the word jealous appeared in our life ? why ? basically , i think this post may help some of my clovers btw :: all the people .. check it out --

sometimes people jealous because they think so much , worry so much . actually do you all know that jealousy can be destructive to a relationship , also friendship.ya i know everyone has feelings of jealousy sometimes .sometimes someone jealous of people who get better grades or who drive nicer cars. But jealousy in an intimate relationship or friendship is a whole different story!

why do people get jealous in the first place? jealousy is often rooted in insecurity. people get jealous when they are uncomfortable with who they are..izzit rite ?when you are not secure with yourself, anything seems threatening, like outside friendships or even crushes on celebrities.ya , i mean everyone ...

some people think that jealousy is a sign of affection and love.What if you think that you have reason to be jealous? But before you let feelings of jealousy take over, talk about it! Don't take your feelings of insecurity out on someone else by being crazy jealous...Tell your friend that you feel uncomfortable with the situation .. Chances are, if there is good communication in your friendship, you can work it out and keep that green-eyed monster far away!

Attention :: JEALOUS ISN'T CUTE !!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

too bad , i lost my password . i can't log in now . ya , i agreed with what u said but dun ya know that it is not easy for us , i mean the human being , not to jealous when we are suppose to jealous ?

perhaps as u say , tell our friends about how we feel or we are feeling uncomfortable is the only way . But then , what if someone is jealous because her best friend is too close to her boyfriend ?? should the girl tell her friend ? i think the answer is absolutely NO ..

so , i think this JEALOUSLY illness is incurable disease .. do u agree with me ?

jia xin

yuen yee said...

hey gurl ..

okay , i agree with u about the incurable disease thing but it is not really incuarable rite ? perhaps there is way to cure it .. believe me ..

really ... believe me larr ..
JEALOUS IS'NT CUTE ..

muahaha . ...